When my children misbehave, the best way I nip the behaviour in the bud is often to remove them from the activity at hand and give them a chance to calm down. This technique, known as a time-out, is an effective, non-violent way to shape behaviour.
Understanding time-outs
A time-out isn't a punishment. It's an opportunity for your child to learn how to cope with frustration and modify his behaviour. While your child is in a time-out, he's on his own, so try to let him sit in solitude for a few moments. Any attention from you – positive or negative – only reinforces unwanted behaviour. I've tried this numerous time with my daughter and it has proven to be most effective for her to improve her attitude to a particular situation.
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